Come on, speak up: Do I get to quit talking to my ex-husband and his wife once the kids are 18? Will his wife (you know, the homewrecker) quit talking crap about me to my kids and people she doesn’t realize are my friends? Will my kids figure out I don’t care if you made Daddy breakfast so she could sleep in, when i can’t get you to pick up your dirty laundry without threats of punishment? Ugggghhhh.